We love purda

Sometimes there is a real advantage to living in a society where there is such separation in the sexes, I just had lunch with my female staff and I love them and I tell them so. I also asked them if one of them would mind massaging my shoulders as my body is aching with different stressors. After lunch I sat on the floor and the eldest, the one who had all her teeth removed one week because they were giving her gip, began an attempt at massage. Then I was instructed by the other two to lie on the floor as it would be better, and take my top of so we checked all the doors were locked and I stripped and lay down. The oldest one was then gazumped as my housekeeper took over and admittedly I had said that I wanted her to knead a little harder but bloody hell I didn't mean that hard! So then I had to ask her to do it a little more gently. It was so sweet, as she was doing my shoulders another one had her hands on my back saying that most people carry their stress lower down, the youngest one (who had her face cut open in the name of beauty the same week the eldest had her teeth removed) in the mean time was doing something to my arm. It was very funny. Then the oldest one, toothless, said she wished she could take a photo at which I yelped and said God forbid!! The others laughed too. Then we had a good laugh about my 'jijis' a word for breasts that I had learned from them at lunch time yesterday. So you see you can imagine what we get up to when we are alone, the things we talk about that I know the colloquial word for boobies!!

Once done with the jiji talk we then got onto men and how fragile our hearts are - one of them remarked that she thought they were all crazy and you were better off without one, another that it is hard to know the truth of a man's character and his quality. They thanked me for learning the language (poor though it is) because they said it meant we could share together. They are a great source of delight to me. The toothless wonder is quite naughty when she wants to be and danced her way out of my office this morning while looking around to see that no one was looking.